The longest-married living couple that we know of in the UK are Allan and Dorothy McDowell, who got married on 26th September 1941. At 82 years and 138 days, it's a pretty mighty feat. Their daughter is very interested in their record, and it's made me ponder exactly where they rank in the world.
I'd invite people to post the longest marriages they can find here (maybe a minimum of 80 years).
I believe the longest marriage that has reasonable clarity and recognition is that between Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher.
They were married on 13 May 1924 and the marriage lasted 86 years and 290 days, until Herbert’s passing on 27 Feb 2011.
Less reliable suggestions include Karam and Kartari Chand of Bradford, in England, supposedly for 90 years. 291 days.
I do remember this couple and pictures of Mrs Chand who looked remarkably young for the marriage duration suggested. If I recall correctly the children of the marriage were also “rather young” for the supposed marriage duration. I’ll see if I can track that one down in the next 24 hours or so.
Ralph and Dorothy Kohler were married from 1935 to 2021, 86 years, close to the Fishers' record.
Mr. Gottfried and Mrs. Ursula Schmelzer - of Bad Sobernheim, Rhineland-Palatinate, Germany -
are Germany´s longest married living couple . They celebrated their 80th wedding anniversary.
Gottfried (102 y.o.) and Ursula (98 y.o.) married on 17 May 1944 in Berlin. Mr. Schmelzer came in the year before (1943) from Romania,
presumably were he was born as 'Volksdeutscher' with German ancestors.
According to the dpa (German Press Agency), the State chancellery Rhineland-Palatinate confirmed that they are Germans longest married living couple.
Congratulations, all the best. God bless you.
Source: Vasabladet 29.9.2024, p.7
https://www.tvl.be/nieuws/huwelijkspaar-in-helchteren-82-jaar-getrouwd-172919
Mr. Eduard Cuyvers (101) and Ms. Angeline Haeseldonckx will celebrate their 82th wedding anniversary tomorrow.
They married on 30 January 1943.
On 30 January 2023 they became the first Belgian couple to reach 80 years of marriage.
http://www.supercentenariditalia.it/persone-viventi-piu-longeve-in-italia.
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https://longeviquest.com/2025/02/worlds-longest-marriage-brazilian-couple-marks-84-years-together/
LongeviQuest is delighted to announce that, as of 5 February 2025, we have verified the world’s longest-lasting marriage where both spouses are still living—one of the longest unions ever recorded in history. Through extensive research conducted by Iara Souza, Gabriel Ainsworth, and Filipe Lopes, it has been confirmed that this remarkable title belongs to a couple from Ceará, Brazil. Manoel Angelim Dino (105) and Maria de Sousa Dino (101) have been married since 20 November 1940, and as of today, they have spent an astonishing 84 years and 77 days together in marriage.
Manoel Angelim Dino and Maria de Sousa Dino were born on 17 July 1919, and 23 April 1923, respectively, in Boa Viagem, Ceará, Brazil.
The couple first met around 1936 while working in agriculture, helping their families. Manoel had traveled to the Almeida region in the Boa Viagem district to collect a shipment of rapaduras (a traditional Brazilian candy) when he first encountered Maria. However, nothing came of their meeting at the time. Years later, fate brought them together again, and on 20 November 1940, they were married. At the time, they were 21 and 17, respectively.
From the moment Manoel saw Maria again, he fell in love at first sight. Wasting no time, he expressed his feelings and asked her out. Maria was unaware of his romantic interest at the time. They met and never separated. However, Maria’s mother was initially opposed to the relationship. Determined to win over his future in-laws, Manoel patiently gained their trust and even began building a home for the family he was about to start.
After their wedding, the couple worked side by side in agriculture, cultivating rolled tobacco to support their growing family. They suffered a lot in the countryside. Over the years, they raised 13 children (eight are living), and the family grew to include 55 grandchildren, 60 great-grandchildren, and 14 great-great-grandchildren.
Now in their later years, their days are peaceful. Due to his age, Manoel spends most of his time resting, only getting up in the evening to sit beside his wife in the living room. Every evening at 6 p.m., they listen to the rosary prayer on the radio, followed by Mass on television.
The couple stated that the key to a long life lies in refraining from vices, and according to Maria, the secret to a long and happy marriage is simple: love.
http://www.supercentenariditalia.it/persone-viventi-piu-longeve-in-italia.
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The GWR has recognized Manoel Angelim Dino (105) and Maria de Sousa Dino (101) from Brazil and married in 1940 as the world's longest marriage for a living couple. LQ was mentioned as the validator of the record.
http://www.supercentenariditalia.it/persone-viventi-piu-longeve-in-italia.
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https://longeviquest.com/2025/05/longest-married-couple-presented-with-longeviquest-plaque/
On 18 May, a plaque was presented to the world’s longest-married couple, Manoel Angelim Dino (105) and Maria de Sousa Dino (102), who have been married since 20 November 1940—a total of 84 years and 178 days.
Manoel Angelim Dino and Maria de Sousa Dino were born on 17 July 1919, and 23 April 1923, respectively, in Boa Viagem, Ceará, Brazil.
The couple first met around 1936 while working in agriculture, helping their families. Manoel had traveled to the Almeida region in the Boa Viagem district to collect a shipment of rapaduras (a traditional Brazilian candy) when he first encountered Maria. However, nothing came of their meeting at the time.
Years later, on 20 November 1940, they were married. At the time, they were 21 and 17, respectively. After their wedding, the couple worked side by side in agriculture, cultivating rolled tobacco to support their growing family. They suffered a lot in the countryside.
Over the years, they raised 13 children (nine are living), and the family grew to include 55 grandchildren, 60 great-grandchildren, and 14 great-great-grandchildren. The couple stated that the key to a long life lies in refraining from vices. According to Maria, the secret to a long and happy marriage is simple: love.
Their record was recognized by LongeviQuest in early February, and shortly afterward, by Guinness World Records as well.
For a short video report about them, please visit our YouTube channel.
http://www.supercentenariditalia.it/persone-viventi-piu-longeve-in-italia.
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https://longeviquest.com/2025/10/manoel-angelim-dino-husband-in-worlds-longest-marriage-dies-at-106/
Manoel Angelim Dino, one half of the world’s longest-married couple, passed away in Boa Viagem, Ceará, Brazil, on 20 October, at the age of 106 years, 95 days. He is survived by his wife, Maria de Sousa Dino, 102, with whom he shared nearly 85 years of marriage.
Manoel Angelim Dino was born in Boa Viagem on 17 July 1919.
The couple first met around 1936 while working in agriculture, helping their families. Manoel had traveled to the Almeida region in the Boa Viagem district to collect a shipment of rapaduras (a traditional Brazilian candy) when he first encountered Maria. However, nothing came of their meeting at the time. Years later, fate brought them together again, and on 20 November 1940, they were married. At the time, they were 21 and 17, respectively.
After their wedding, the couple worked side by side in agriculture, cultivating rolled tobacco to support their growing family. Over the years, they raised 13 children.
In February 2025, the couple was officially verified and recognized by LongeviQuest, and shortly afterward, Guinness World Records also confirmed their title. On 18 May 2025, they were awarded by LongeviQuest and presented with a custom-designed LongeviQuest trophy, in recognition of their status as the world’s longest-married couple.
http://www.supercentenariditalia.it/persone-viventi-piu-longeve-in-italia.
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Rest in peace Mr Manoel Angelim Dino and deepest condolences to Mrs Maria de Sousa Dino.
Their marriage appears to have lasted for 84 years, 11 months and 0 days.
https://longeviquest.com/2025/11/eleanor-and-lyle-gittens-the-worlds-longest-married-couple/
Eleanor Gittens, 107, and her husband Lyle Gittens, 108, of Miami, FL have been crowned the world’s longest-married couple by LongeviQuest. The two were married on June 4, 1942 and earlier this year celebrated their 83rd anniversary.
The couple assumed the title after the passing of Manoel Angelim Dino, who held the record along with his wife Maria de Sousa Dino. LongeviQuest’s Global Validation Commission confirmed the record using the couple’s 1942 marriage certificate, U.S. census entries, and cross-referenced archival material from multiple decades.
At a combined age of 216 years and 132 days, the Gittens have also broken the record for world’s oldest ever married couple, exceeding the prior record holders from Ecuador.
Beyond their remarkable statistics lies a love story that has endured through war, family, and the passage of nearly a century.
Lyle and Eleanor first met in 1941 as students at Clark Atlanta University. Lyle was on the basketball team and Eleanor was a spectator at the team’s game against crosstown rival Morehouse College. In an interview over the weekend in Miami, Eleanor could not recall the outcome of the game, only that it was the first time she ever saw Lyle. Lyle was later inducted into the Clark Atlanta University Men’s Basketball Hall of Fame.
Their early years together were shaped by World War II. Despite the certainty of Lyle being drafted, the couple planned their wedding for June 4, 1942, and Lyle was granted a three-day pass from training at Fort Benning in Georgia. He recalled this weekend that on the journey from Georgia to Bradenton, Florida (Eleanor’s hometown and their wedding site), he sat in a segregated train car. The long trip, it turned out, was worth it.
Their wedding was a joyous occasion despite the world events. It was the first time Lyle had met Eleanor’s family. But the events could not be ignored. In a 2022 article in The Westside Gazette, Eleanor shared that upon Lyle leaving Bradenton after their wedding, “I wondered whether I would ever see him again.”
As the war heated up, Lyle was sent to fight in Italy along with his Army unit, the 92nd Infantry Division. Already pregnant, Eleanor moved to New York City where she met Lyle’s family for the first time and got a job working payroll for a company producing aircraft parts for the war effort. While Lyle was in Italy, Eleanor’s only contact with him was a series of letters which were heavily censored by military mail clerks. According to Eleanor, more of Lyle’s words were redacted than visible.
Once the war was over, the two could finally begin their marriage. After two years living apart, Lyle and Eleanor finally built a home together in New York City. Their son Lyle Rogers had been born during the war, and was joined soon after by daughters Angela and Ignae. It wasn’t easy at first – there were far more returning soldiers and sailors than available jobs. Eventually, both Lyle and Eleanor took and passed the New York civil service exam and earned government jobs.
When interviewed this past weekend, the two recalled that during the 50s and 60s, their work was difficult and the hours were long. However, the period was joyful due to a tradition they developed. After each long workday, when the two of them finally had time to enjoy each other’s company, Lyle would prepare two martinis for him and Eleanor to enjoy. Their jobs involved training others to find jobs, which they found deeply fulfilling, and they each enjoyed sharing their daily accomplishments with each other. The tradition has continued, today taking the form of a shared Modelo beer at lunch rather than an after-work martini.
As Eleanor and Lyle neared retirement, they found other sources of fulfillment. Eleanor earned her doctorate in Urban Education from Fordham University at the age of 69. The couple was active in the Clark Atlanta University Alumni Association for many decades. They also joined the International Congress for Caribbean Archaeology. Their decades-long membership in the organization inspired many of their travels together, including their favorite destination, the island of Guadeloupe.
Lyle had grown up in New York City and for nearly 80 years, it was Eleanor’s home as well. As they entered their centenarian years, their daughter Angela brought them to downtown Miami to live a few doors down from her. From one direction, the view outside their apartment overlooks Miami’s cruise terminal. Watching the ships arrive and depart is one of Eleanor’s favorite pastimes. In the other direction, the Gittens have a clear view of the core of Miami’s crowded downtown skyline. Even with all the hustle and bustle, Lyle misses New York City. According to him, “If you’re not living in New York City, you’re camping.”
Despite his love of the Big Apple, he and Eleanor seem happy in Miami. Though largely confined to his bed, Lyle has kept all his wits about him. At 108, he uses his smartphone with ease and curiosity. “Even at my age, you can still gain knowledge,” he says. With Angela as their neighbor, they have the care and support they need while maintaining the independence anyone would seek. Their high-rise residence overlooking the city seems the perfect place to continue their one-of-a-kind love story.
When asked the secret behind her record-setting marriage, Eleanor gave a simple explanation, “We love each other.” When asked the same question, Lyle gave a similar answer, “I love my wife.” Both mentioned that maintaining their marriage never seemed to require much effort; it was easy for them to stay married. That feeling is easy to see when meeting them.
At one point as they were taking photos with their awards, they held each other’s hands and looked at one another. The look on each of their faces could best be described as a smirk. It was as they were each thinking, “Isn’t this something?” It was clear that they were having a conversation with no need for words after spending eight decades mastering each other’s every expression.
http://www.supercentenariditalia.it/persone-viventi-piu-longeve-in-italia.
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Congratulations to Mr & Mrs Gittens.
Interestingly they are somewhat older than the last record holders, having married somewhat later in life, by comparison.
rapaduras (a traditional Brazilian candy)
For those who don't know, this candy is very tasty, one of my favorites. It's a hard candy, so you have to be careful when biting into it.
But it's really sweet, so you have to like sweets and not overdo it; you have to eat only a little at a time.
Rest in peace Mr Manoel Angelim Dino and deepest condolences to Mrs Maria de Sousa Dino.
Their marriage appears to have lasted for 84 years, 11 months and 0 days.
They are the 11th longest-married couple of all time.
Eleanor Gittens, 107, and her husband Lyle Gittens, 108
Does anyone know the birthdate of each of the two?